It happens in most relations, even in the stable ones. At the initial stage of relations, everything is going perfect – you feel happy and satisfied, but over time, feelings and passion pass away. Once, you get up in the morning with a thought, if you really need these relations. However, before you will be able to change anything and bring your relations back on the track, you should accept the fact of stagnation your couple is facing now. Learn the common signs of it below:
1. You feel bored in relations. Every relations require constant efforts from both partners and if you are not able to do it, so obviously, you will be bored. Find some new common hobbies. If you do not know how to shake your relations, than arrange vocations in the mountains, go to the seaside, and attend classes of Argentinian tango. Talk to your partner to get know his opinion. Each pair has different options to bring some fresh air in relations.
2. You start to notice attractiveness of other men or women. You could notice the attractiveness of other people and it is absolutely normal. It does not mean that you betray your partner, you just highlight some positive features in them, it happens. It will continue until you break the circle of routine with your partner and bring back sparks to your relations.
3. You feel irritation. Everyone has some quirks, which you ignore at the beginning of relations. When your relations stagnate, you are annoyed by these quirks and getting mad every time when you point it out. Try to find some positive features, which prevail in your partner. Remember those qualities, which you fell in love with on the first stage of relations.
4. You could not understand your feelings. Sometimes it is hard to understand what is happening when your relations stagnate. However, true love never dies. Maybe, your feelings are sleeping somewhere deep in your heart and you just have to invite your partner on a date to bring new colors to your love story.
5. You do not feel passion in a bed. Previously you had an unforgettable sex with your lover. After several years, passion has gone and you started feeling bored. Discover the tastes of your partner: visit SPA or massage together. Try some new poses and places in sex, play erotic games and visit the nearest sex-shop.
How to Get Rid of Stagnation and Bring back Passion to Your Romantic Life?
Stagnation is not the end of relations. It is like a pause in conversation: at some time, someone needs to break the silence in order to move forward. Once you noticed the signs of stagnation – talk about it with your partner. You need to work on it and decide what you should do together. You have to realize that you would never be able to go back at the first stage of your relations when everything was new. Think about you have now: probably you live in a comfort and stability. Maybe it seems not so exciting, but it is obviously more important.